Listen to the link below: S6:E2 Here's Why You Can't Find Love
Listen to the link below: S6:E2 Here's Why You Can't Find Love
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This Monday, October 4th, at 7:00 pm eastern, I will be interviewed for my recent book, Here's Why You Can't Find Love. I will be interviewed on the Cocktails & Cigars channel. These gentlemen have a great format and they take on provocative topics. You will not want to miss it.
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Who Taught You About Relationships?
The #32 reason you can’t find love is a little more complicated than the previous ones. It requires you to take a hard look under the covers of your life. Unfortunately, this is something most people do not enjoy doing.
The number 32 reason you can’t find love is because you
The #31 reason you can’t find love may not be considered common sense. Common sense says you are supposed to take care of your significant other. Unfortunately, many people only make clear demonstrations of care for their significant other if
Many people claim they deserve to be in a leadership position. In an organization, the top leaders are part of the C-Suite. They are your Chief Executive Officer – CEO, Chief Financial Officer – CFO, Chief Operating Officer – COO, Chief Technology Officer – CTO, etc. The CEO is the chief of the chiefs and the others report to him. In many large companies, there is a
This is one of those don’t shoot the messenger conversations. And it’s a big one so put on your seatbelt. The number 30 reason you can’t find love may seem trivial. However, when you peel down layers, you find it is problematic in many ways. This reason has everything to do with how you
I have already spoken about how seeking something outside of the relationship is a poor strategy. The number 29 reason you can’t find love depends 100% on something outside of the couple. When you take a step back and look, it may border abuse.
The number 29 reason you can’t find love is you believe
Ted Santos’ latest book is called, Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love. He wrote the book to usher in a new paradigm of corporate social responsibility.
According to Life Innovations Study, they concluded $300 billion is being lost in workplace productivity every year because of one word. Divorce! In any company, a percentage of your employee population is in one of three categories - headed for divorce, in the middle of one or just coming out of it. With over 50% of marriages ending in divorce, many employees are distracted and distraught. That makes them less productive at work.
In addition, according to a divorceanswered.com article, they stated there is a decline in workplace performance by 50%-75% as well as time off to deal with legal, financial and psychological issues related to divorce. Unproductive employees create unprofitable companies, which causes layoffs. Layoffs put financial strain on marriages and cause more divorces. The cycle perpetuates itself.
Up to now, there has been no attempt to stop the bleeding of lost productivity. We accept it as the cost of operating businesses.
On the other hand, there appears to be a phenomenon that is being ignored. Studies show couples in healthy relationships are better at resolving conflict and communicating effectively at work. This shows interpersonal skills are transferrable to and from work.
Corporate social responsibility of the future will be corporations transforming society. By training people in critical skills for successful relationships, men and women will learn to implement them at work. Then they will transfer them to home and family life.
In the book, Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love, many of those skills are presented in a story telling fashion. The book highlights one man and five women engaged in a profound conversation about intimate relationships. Interestingly, the book integrates corporate training into a subject most can relate to - love relationships.
Through the book, people will learn about mindset, biases, saboteur behavior, mental barriers, blind spots, effective communication, conflict resolution, collaboration, and more. The book is an introduction. Advance development of those skills will come from workshops that focus on a breakthrough in workplace performance.
While staff and management transform their mindsets and learn new competencies at work, they will bring it home and create a more favorable home life. With a better home life, they will become better employees. The cycle self perpetuates itself.
To purchase a copy of the book: https://brileybaxterbooks.com/author-ted-santos/
The number 26 reason you can’t find love would seem as though it should not be on the list. It is an activity most have engaged in. While most have, it does not mean they understand it. The number 26 reason you can’t find love is because you
The number 25 reason you can’t find love is one that can be changed over night. As children, the adults in our lives set us up to fail in relationships. When you look at the divorce rate, you see I am not exaggerating. When you look at the amount of relationships that will never make it to marriage, you see most people have failed their relationships before they start. Why??? You
The number 24 reason you can’t find love has a direct impact on your ability to know who is compatible with you. Most people have been taught to base compatibility on surface things, like favorite color, zodiac signs and common interests. They don’t realize your core value system is a major way to match people. And it is the reason many
I kind of have a cheap plug. Since I have spent my life focusing on how to make relationships work, it’s been more difficult than I thought to list why they fail.
The number 22 reason you can’t find love may be the result of incompetence. Stay with me. I think I’m about to offer a different perspective than most of you anticipate. Number 22 is you
The number 21 reason you can’t find love is major. It’s also related to numbers one and 17 reasons. The number one reason is you don’t listen. The number 17 reason is you listen to a radio station. There is a reason you don’t listen. And number 21 tells you why you are not listening. Number 21 is a
The number 19 reason you can’t find love goes against everything you have been taught. When you understand it, you will realize an entirely new possibility for creating extraordinary relationships in all aspects of your life. It may also cause you to reconsider who you allow in your life.
The number 19 reason you can’t find love is
The 18 reason you can’t find love seems illogical if two people are together for love. It would seem they are together to experience things together. When that does not happen, you have to ask what is really happening. The number 18 reason is you will
According to a Life Innovation Study, corporate America is losing $300 billion a year in workplace productivity because of divorce. At any point, a percentage of the employee population is headed for a divorce, in the middle of one or just coming out of it. In a divorceanswered.com article, they say people dealing with divorce have a 50%-75%
The number 17 reason you can’t find love is well highlighted in my most recent book called, Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love. It’s such a major part of everyone’s life that I had to make a big deal of it in the book.
The number 17 reason you can’t find love is because you are listening to
The number 16 reason you can’t find love is surprisingly common. It’s an example of how people sabotage their relationship before it starts. It’s a mindset. The number 16 reason you can’t find love is because you have an exit strategy before it starts. In other words, you have a
The number 15 reason you can’t find love is another one that will pierce the illusion of love. Don’t shoot the messenger. There is a small percentage of couples that understand the reality of what I’m about to say. They usually stay together.
The number 15 reason you can’t find love is because you believe love is
Making money can bring great satisfaction to one’s life. It’s a sign of accomplishment. As you earn more, it gives you the freedom to buy and do the things you have always wanted. The challenge for many is to watch how they spend their money.
For some, it seems they are on the perpetual
We are up to number 14. This one will disturb many of you. The number 14 reason you can’t find love is because you are looking for unconditional love. Number 14 is such a myth that I want to kill it today. There is no such thing as unconditional love.
When people say they offer unconditional love, they are being
Today is May 18, and it is the debut of my book, Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love. It is a dynamic book that uncovers, through story, how people sabotage relationships in love, work or play. I use a real event where five women
There are many myths that surround love relationships. Number 13 is a big myth. The 13th reason you can’t find love is because you believe relationships take hard work. There is a French philosopher by the name of Jean Paul Sartre. He said once you
I already talked about how people look for magic. Today I want to address how relationships were and how the media changed what use to work.
This idea of romance is new in human history. It’s about 170 years old. Before that, marriages were arranged or semi arranged. The union of the 2 had a
Reason #10 you can’t find love is because you are waiting for magic. It’s amazing when you meet women and they tell you that a man should just know what a woman wants. In fact, they say it is his job to just know. That is how things magically happen. Many women believe if a man does romantic stuff, things
Number 9 is difficult to escape because we all engage in this activity. In fact, we are taught to use this skill even if it works against us. We all judge and assess others to protect self or to find pleasure. The problem is you can only judge to the extent your
Number 8 is going to sound crazy at first. Stay with me and think about it. I am saying the reason your relationships don’t work or you get mediocre at best is because you have never been trained to be in a relationship. Yes, I said that.
Think about it. If you have a billion
The number 7 reason could almost appear innocent. You have friends and family who traditionally look out for your best interest. At least it seems like it should be that way. At the same time, if you have a successful love relationship, they may be envious of it. Most likely, they will never tell you that. Or they will say they are envious of your relationship jokingly.
This one is going to be very difficult for most of you. You have come to depend on it so much that you may not know how to do without it. The number 6 reason you cannot find love is because you depend on chemistry.
If you understand the number 5 reason I gave, you begin to understand why you depend on chemistry. I’m going to say something
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PLYMOUTH, MASSACHUSETTS – Briley & Baxter Publications is excited to announce the release of the self-help book, Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love, by author and executive coach, Ted Santos, available on May 18, 2021 via Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Walmart, Kobo and other digital booksellers.
According to the Life Innovations Study, US businesses are losing
The #5 reason you cannot find love is because you lack relationship skills. While you believe you developed them, most have not. Everyone knows you hire an engineer to do engineering jobs. And you hire an accountant to do accountant jobs. Yet, when it comes to the most important job
The number four reason you can’t find love is because you don’t know how to cooperate. In a study, they found couples in healthy relationships were more effective communicators and better at resolving conflict at work than those in unhealthy relationships. Couples in healthy relationships are people who understand the importance of cooperation and what is required. It also says cooperative people
The ability to resolve conflict is a critical skill to have for any relationship. What’s interesting is in studies, they found that couples in healthy relationships were more effective communicators and better able to resolve conflict in the workplace. That means conflict resolution skills are transferrable. Therefore, if you develop those skills at work, you will be able to
Since divorce is costing corporate America $300 billion in lost workplace productivity, I am going to talk about the reasons relationships fail. In this series, I will discuss top reasons
According to Life Innovations Study, they concluded $300 billion is being lost in workplace productivity every year because of one word. Divorce! In any company, a percentage of your employee population is in one of three categories - headed for divorce, in the middle of one or just coming out of it. With over
According to Harvard Business Review, corporate America is losing $150 billion in workplace productivity every year because of one word. Divorce! In a Life Innovations Study, they concluded $300 billion is being lost because of relationship related stress. In any company, a percentage of your employee population is in one of three categories
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