Tuesday, May 25, 2021

What’s the #16 Reason You Can’t Find Love?


The number 16 reason you can’t find love is surprisingly common.  It’s an example of how people sabotage their relationship before it starts.  It’s a mindset.  The number 16 reason you can’t find love is because you have an exit strategy before it starts.  In other words, you have a

Friday, May 21, 2021

What’s the #15 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

The number 15 reason you can’t find love is another one that will pierce the illusion of love.  Don’t shoot the messenger.  There is a small percentage of couples that understand the reality of what I’m about to say.  They usually stay together.  

The number 15 reason you can’t find love is because you believe love is

Thursday, May 20, 2021

Are You on the Lifestyle Creep Treadmill?

Making money can bring great satisfaction to one’s life.  It’s a sign of accomplishment.  As you earn more, it gives you the freedom to buy and do the things you have always wanted.  The challenge for many is to watch how they spend their money.  

For some, it seems they are on the perpetual

What’s the #14 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

We are up to number 14.  This one will disturb many of you.  The number 14 reason you can’t find love is because you are looking for unconditional love.  Number 14 is such a myth that I want to kill it today.  There is no such thing as unconditional love.  

When people say they offer unconditional love, they are being

Tuesday, May 18, 2021

Ted Santos Book Launch for: Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love

Today is May 18, and it is the debut of my book, Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love.  It is a dynamic book that uncovers, through story, how people sabotage relationships in love, work or play.  I use a real event where five women

Monday, May 17, 2021

Is This Your Mindset When It Comes to Love Relationships?

There are many myths that surround love relationships.  Number 13 is a big myth.  The 13th reason you can’t find love is because you believe relationships take hard work.  There is a French philosopher by the name of Jean Paul Sartre.  He said once you

Friday, May 14, 2021

Are You Trying to Create Love or a Fantasy?

I already talked about how people look for magic.  Today I want to address how relationships were and how the media changed what use to work.  

This idea of romance is new in human history.  It’s about 170 years old.  Before that, marriages were arranged or semi arranged.  The union of the 2 had a

Thursday, May 13, 2021

Is It Love That Blinds People? Or Are You Blinded By Something Else?

Reason #10 you can’t find love is because you are waiting for magic.  It’s amazing when you meet women and they tell you that a man should just know what a woman wants.  In fact, they say it is his job to just know.  That is how things magically happen.  Many women believe if a man does romantic stuff, things

Wednesday, May 12, 2021

Can Good Intentions Turn into Bad Habits?

Number 9 is difficult to escape because we all engage in this activity.  In fact, we are taught to use this skill even if it works against us.  We all judge and assess others to protect self or to find pleasure.  The problem is you can only judge to the extent your

Monday, May 10, 2021

Why Do People Believe Relationships Are Hard Work?

Number 8 is going to sound crazy at first.  Stay with me and think about it.  I am saying the reason your relationships don’t work or you get mediocre at best is because you have never been trained to be in a relationship.  Yes, I said that. 

Think about it.  If you have a billion

Saturday, May 8, 2021

Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love

How Do You Handle Problems in Your Relationship?

The number 7 reason could almost appear innocent. You have friends and family who traditionally look out for your best interest.  At least it seems like it should be that way.  At the same time, if you have a successful love relationship, they may be envious of it.  Most likely, they will never tell you that.  Or they will say they are envious of your relationship jokingly.

Friday, May 7, 2021

Are Your Relationships Built on Illusions That Feel Good?

This one is going to be very difficult for most of you.  You have come to depend on it so much that you may not know how to do without it.  The number 6 reason you cannot find love is because you depend on chemistry. 

If you understand the number 5 reason I gave, you begin to understand why you depend on chemistry.  I’m going to say something

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Thursday, May 6, 2021

What’s the #9 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

Do You Know How Relationships Work?

The #5 reason you cannot find love is because you lack relationship skills.  While you believe you developed them, most have not.  Everyone knows you hire an engineer to do engineering jobs.  And you hire an accountant to do accountant jobs.  Yet, when it comes to the most important job

Tuesday, May 4, 2021

Can a Relationship Survive Without This Important Ingredient?

The number four reason you can’t find love is because you don’t know how to cooperate.  In a study, they found couples in healthy relationships were more effective communicators and better at resolving conflict at work than those in unhealthy relationships.  Couples in healthy relationships are people who understand the importance of cooperation and what is required.  It also says cooperative people

Monday, May 3, 2021

What’s the #3 Reason You Will Never Find Love?

The number 3 reason people cannot find love is because they don’t know how to determine who is compatible with them.  Having things in common is

Saturday, May 1, 2021

What’s the #2 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

The ability to resolve conflict is a critical skill to have for any relationship.  What’s interesting is in studies, they found that couples in healthy relationships were more effective communicators and better able to resolve conflict in the workplace.  That means conflict resolution skills are transferrable.  Therefore, if you develop those skills at work, you will be able to

What’s the Number One Reason People Can’t Find Love?

Since divorce is costing corporate America $300 billion in lost workplace productivity, I am going to talk about the reasons relationships fail.  In this series, I will discuss top reasons

Why Is Corporate America Losing $300 Billion Every Year?

According to Life Innovations Study, they concluded $300 billion is being lost in workplace productivity every year because of one word.  Divorce!  In any company, a percentage of your employee population is in one of three categories - headed for divorce, in the middle of one or just coming out of it.  With over