My Recent Interview: I Was Interviewed About Marriage, Compatibility and Why So Many Relationships Fail

 

Listen to the link below: S6:E2 Here's Why You Can't Find Love

https://blackfamilytabletalk.com/podcast

How Do You Build a Brand in a Hyper Competitive Space?

 

Branding is the promotion of a particular product or company by means of advertising and distinctive design.  When you think of companies that are well branded, names like Nike, Starbucks, McDonald’s and Johnson & Johnson are a short list.  Those companies invest the time, resources

How to build a brand in a hyper competitive space 12/02 by The Creative Alchemist | Entrepreneur

How to build a brand in a hyper competitive space 12/02 by The Creative Alchemist | Entrepreneur: When you think of companies that are well branded, names like Nike, Starbucks, McDonald's and Johnson & Johnson are a short list. Those companies invest the time, resources and brain power to develop recognizable names that transcend time and national borders. For this show, we are going to have a very special guest. He is what you would call the brains of branding. His name is David Lemley. He is the founder of Retail Voodoo. David participated with other great minds to develop branding strategies for Nike, Starbucks, Pampers and many other names you are familiar with. For this show he is going to share his knowledge about branding strategies. This is a show you want to take advantage of. Mark your calendars and prepare your questions. With the new year coming, ask David some of your most pressing questions about branding yourself, a product or company.

What is does your soul purpose mean? 11/11 by The Creative Alchemist | Entrepreneur

What is does your soul purpose mean? 11/11 by The Creative Alchemist | Entrepreneur: Rebecca Windsor is the founder of Body of Truth. Rebecca has made it her mission to provide divorced women a place to start rebuilding both their bodies and their souls, so their divorce becomes their blessing. Tune in tonight to hear what your soul purpose means and how it affects you. You can also subscribe to Rebecca's YouTube channel at Body of Truth or reach out directly at rebecca@bodyoftruth.net

How Do You Train Your Mind?

If you want to excel at anything, you must firsts develop your mind. Mindset is the difference between 2 talented athletes. Both have talent, except one is good and the other is extraordinary. Why? It's not luck.

How Do You Resolve Conflict in the Workplace? 10/28 by The Creative Alchemist | Entrepreneur

How Do You Resolve Conflict in the Workplace? 10/28 by The Creative Alchemist | Entrepreneur: What's more important is the inability to manage self in the face of conflict makes it difficult for others to want to work with you. And that can negatively impact on your ability to move up the corporate ladder. For this show, we will have Adrian Carter as a guest. He is working on his Ph.D. in conflict resolution. He is the author of several books, including Emerging as the Right Person in the Right Place at the Right Time: Leadership in then 21st Century Using the Ellison Model. During this show, we will discuss the consequences when you lack the ability to resolve conflict. He will also impart tools to effectively manage it.

Let’s Talk Football: One-On-One with TheScout

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Rescheduled Live Interview! (October 11, @7:00pm)

 

Live Interview October 4th

 

This Monday, October 4th, at 7:00 pm eastern, I will be interviewed for my recent book, Here's Why You Can't Find Love.  I will be interviewed on the Cocktails & Cigars channel.  These gentlemen have a great format and they take on provocative topics.  You will not want to miss it.  

See link: https://www.youtube.com/c/CocktailsandCigars

What’s the #32 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

Who Taught You About Relationships? 

The #32 reason you can’t find love is a little more complicated than the previous ones.  It requires you to take a hard look under the covers of your life.  Unfortunately, this is something most people do not enjoy doing.  

The number 32 reason you can’t find love is because you

What’s the #31 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

 

The #31 reason you can’t find love may not be considered common sense.  Common sense says you are supposed to take care of your significant other.  Unfortunately, many people only make clear demonstrations of care for their significant other if

What Is the C-Suite Dilemma?

Many people claim they deserve to be in a leadership position.  In an organization, the top leaders are part of the C-Suite.  They are your Chief Executive Officer – CEO, Chief Financial Officer – CFO, Chief Operating Officer – COO, Chief Technology Officer – CTO, etc.  The CEO is the chief of the chiefs and the others report to him.  In many large companies, there is a

What Is the C-Suite Dilemma?

What’s the #30 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

This is one of those don’t shoot the messenger conversations.  And it’s a big one so put on your seatbelt.  The number 30 reason you can’t find love may seem trivial.  However, when you peel down layers, you find it is problematic in many ways.  This reason has everything to do with how you

What’s the #29 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

 

I have already spoken about how seeking something outside of the relationship is a poor strategy.  The number 29 reason you can’t find love depends 100% on something outside of the couple.  When you take a step back and look, it may border abuse. 

The number 29 reason you can’t find love is you believe

Activating your Superpowers 07/15 by The Creative Alchemist | Entrepreneur

Activating your Superpowers 07/15 by The Creative Alchemist | Entrepreneur: Tonight we speak with Jean-Michel to learn how we can uncover our super power to find fulfillment.

What’s the #28 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

 

People say relationships are all about give and take.  You even hear about the need to compromise.  I assume you compromise by giving in so you can get back later.  

The number 28 reason you can’t find love is because you

Corporate Social Responsibility of the Future

 

Ted Santos’ latest book is called, Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love.  He wrote the book to usher in a new paradigm of corporate social responsibility.  

Problem:

According to Life Innovations Study, they concluded $300 billion is being lost in workplace productivity every year because of one word.  Divorce!  In any company, a percentage of your employee population is in one of three categories - headed for divorce, in the middle of one or just coming out of it.  With over 50% of marriages ending in divorce, many employees are distracted and distraught.  That makes them less productive at work.  

In addition, according to a divorceanswered.com article, they stated there is a decline in workplace performance by 50%-75% as well as time off to deal with legal, financial and psychological issues related to divorce.  Unproductive employees create unprofitable companies, which causes layoffs.  Layoffs put financial strain on marriages and cause more divorces.  The cycle perpetuates itself.    

Up to now, there has been no attempt to stop the bleeding of lost productivity.  We accept it as the cost of operating businesses.   

On the other hand, there appears to be a phenomenon that is being ignored.  Studies show couples in healthy relationships are better at resolving conflict and communicating effectively at work.  This shows interpersonal skills are transferrable to and from work.  

Solution:

Corporate social responsibility of the future will be corporations transforming society.  By training people in critical skills for successful relationships, men and women will learn to implement them at work.  Then they will transfer them to home and family life.  

In the book, Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love, many of those skills are presented in a story telling fashion.  The book highlights one man and five women engaged in a profound conversation about intimate relationships.  Interestingly, the book integrates corporate training into a subject most can relate to - love relationships.    

Through the book, people will learn about mindset, biases, saboteur behavior, mental barriers, blind spots, effective communication, conflict resolution, collaboration, and more.  The book is an introduction.  Advance development of those skills will come from workshops that focus on a breakthrough in workplace performance. 

While staff and management transform their mindsets and learn new competencies at work, they will bring it home and create a more favorable home life.  With a better home life, they will become better employees.  The cycle self perpetuates itself. 

To purchase a copy of the book: https://brileybaxterbooks.com/author-ted-santos/

Should Men Choose Surrogate Mothers Instead of Marriage?

Do You Know the Wealth Building Strategies of the Affluent? 11/17 by StraightTalk with Ted Santos | Romance

Do You Know the Wealth Building Strategies of the Affluent? 11/17 by StraightTalk with Ted Santos | Romance: When it comes to wealth in a capitalistic society, there are rules of engagement. In a way, it is no different than sports. When it comes to sports, you must know the rules, train for them, have a strategy and execute like a professional. When you don't know the rules of engagement and train, you struggle. In some cases, you may squander wealth by allowing it to slip through your fingers. This is the fate of most large lottery winners. Like sports, wealth is intentional and strategic, especially when it's generational. You must be able to develop strategies and carry them out. Even if you look at families like the Rockefellers, you will see intentional strategies to increase wealth for today and the future. While it is true the Rockefellers have inherited their wealth, their affluence had a beginning. It started with one man – John D Rockefeller, Sr. What he instilled in his offspring was a mindset to strategically grow that wealth. And they have been extraordinarily successful. Whether you are Warren Buffet, the Rockefellers, or Jeff Bezos, there are ways to put money to work for you and future generations. This Sunday we are going to have a very focused discussion about wealth building strategies. To discuss wealth building we will have a very special guest. Straight Talk welcomes back Perry Jefferies. On a previous show, he discussed ?financial fitness?. On this show, he will talk about what to do once you are financially fit. P...

What’s the #27 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

The number 27 reason you can’t find love is a big one.  And it’s one that is swept under the rug.  All you have to do is ask people a simple question: What do you want in a relationship.  Most tell you what they

What You Need to Know About Property Buying 06/24 by The Creative Alchemist | Entrepreneur

What You Need to Know About Property Buying 06/24 by The Creative Alchemist | Entrepreneur: 

Meet Jack Laudani of Cardinal Financial..AKA The Mortgage Guy. Jack has every detail of property buying covered and he is going to share his secrets. From Pre-Qualifying to Closing and everything in between. This Heavy Hitter was a Savvy Baseball Star for the LIU Pioneers and boasted a .179 batting average. Majoring in business management with a minor in sports management, Jack brings his passion and goal setting to the table when working with his clients. For fun he loves to surfs and when working in the mortgage business, riding the waves is a must. Tune in to learn what's necessary in Property buying and decide if this is the right choice for you

What’s the #26 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

The number 26 reason you can’t find love would seem as though it should not be on the list.  It is an activity most have engaged in.  While most have, it does not mean they understand it.  The number 26 reason you can’t find love is because you

What’s the #25 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

 

The number 25 reason you can’t find love is one that can be changed over night.  As children, the adults in our lives set us up to fail in relationships.  When you look at the divorce rate, you see I am not exaggerating.  When you look at the amount of relationships that will never make it to marriage, you see most people have failed their relationships before they start.  Why??? You

Investment Strategies and what it means to be a "Capital Raiser"

Investment Strategies and what it means to be a "Capital Raiser" 06/17 by The Creative Alchemist | Entrepreneur: 

Tony Chauvet appears to be a perfectionist and from his roster of impressive credentials it suits his position as Capital Raiser for Hermes Investment Management. Our Guest tonight, Tony Chauvet, has a 'wealth' of knowledge and the experience to prove it. As Project Manager, Tony has raised $30 Million in 2018 and assisted teams that have raised $200 Thousand and $10 Million. Tony has helped manage a team of 30 people for a major launch, assisted communications with clients, Oversees the different aspects of a project, including community, technical, marketing, smart contract and github, PR, translations, white paper, legal, business, web site, OTC and is an Advisor and investor relations for Artificial Intelligence & Blockchain companies. 

With a Professional Network of over 16,000 precisely targeted People in the industry, Tony not only helps raise Capital but he bring high levels of professionalism, commitment and attention to detail to every endeavor. Tune in to hear more.

06/17 by The Creative Alchemist | Entrepreneur

What’s the #24 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

The number 24 reason you can’t find love has a direct impact on your ability to know who is compatible with you.  Most people have been taught to base compatibility on surface things, like favorite color, zodiac signs and common interests.  They don’t realize your core value system is a major way to match people.  And it is the reason many

What’s the #23 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

 

The number 23 reason is something that is popularly known.  You might wonder why I did not already mention it.  The #23 reason you can’t find love is because you

What’s the #22 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

I kind of have a cheap plug.  Since I have spent my life focusing on how to make relationships work, it’s been more difficult than I thought to list why they fail.  

The number 22 reason you can’t find love may be the result of incompetence.  Stay with me.  I think I’m about to offer a different perspective than most of you anticipate.  Number 22 is you

What’s the #21 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

The number 21 reason you can’t find love is major.  It’s also related to numbers one and 17 reasons.  The number one reason is you don’t listen.  The number 17 reason is you listen to a radio station.  There is a reason you don’t listen.  And number 21 tells you why you are not listening.  Number 21 is a

Do You Have a Digital Content Strategy? 06/10 by The Creative Alchemist | Entrepreneur

Do You Have a Digital Content Strategy? 06/10 by The Creative Alchemist | Entrepreneur: 

Over the decades, advertising or promoting your business has gone through several phases. What worked 20 years ago may be obsolete in 2021. Because of technology, the knowledge you need to promote your business is moving so fast it is difficult to keep up with it. To get you up to date, we are going to have a very special guest. He has been part of the digital content revolution. His name is Ron Bowen. Ron is the Senior Vice President of Sports Advertising Associates. Tonight he is going to impart critical knowledge to execute effective digital content strategies. Tonight, Thursday, June 10, from 7:00 pm-8:00 pm eastern time. The Creative Alchemist with Ted Santos and Lori Miller. To call in: (516) 387-1640

What’s the #20 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

 

The number 20 reason you can’t find love is an important part of a relationship.  Is it enough to make it work, though?  The #20 reason you can’t find love is because you believe

What’s the #19 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

The number 19 reason you can’t find love goes against everything you have been taught.  When you understand it, you will realize an entirely new possibility for creating extraordinary relationships in all aspects of your life.  It may also cause you to reconsider who you allow in your life. 

The number 19 reason you can’t find love is

What’s the #18 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

The 18 reason you can’t find love seems illogical if two people are together for love.  It would seem they are together to experience things together.  When that does not happen, you have to ask what is really happening. The number 18 reason is you will

What Does Your Love Life Have to Do with Your Professional Life?

According to a Life Innovation Study, corporate America is losing $300 billion a year in workplace productivity because of divorce.  At any point, a percentage of the employee population is headed for a divorce, in the middle of one or just coming out of it.  In a divorceanswered.com article, they say people dealing with divorce have a 50%-75%

What’s the #17 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

The number 17 reason you can’t find love is well highlighted in my most recent book called, Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love.  It’s such a major part of everyone’s life that I had to make a big deal of it in the book.    

The number 17 reason you can’t find love is because you are listening to

What’s the #16 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

 

The number 16 reason you can’t find love is surprisingly common.  It’s an example of how people sabotage their relationship before it starts.  It’s a mindset.  The number 16 reason you can’t find love is because you have an exit strategy before it starts.  In other words, you have a

What’s the #15 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

The number 15 reason you can’t find love is another one that will pierce the illusion of love.  Don’t shoot the messenger.  There is a small percentage of couples that understand the reality of what I’m about to say.  They usually stay together.  

The number 15 reason you can’t find love is because you believe love is

Are You on the Lifestyle Creep Treadmill?

Making money can bring great satisfaction to one’s life.  It’s a sign of accomplishment.  As you earn more, it gives you the freedom to buy and do the things you have always wanted.  The challenge for many is to watch how they spend their money.  

For some, it seems they are on the perpetual

What’s the #14 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

We are up to number 14.  This one will disturb many of you.  The number 14 reason you can’t find love is because you are looking for unconditional love.  Number 14 is such a myth that I want to kill it today.  There is no such thing as unconditional love.  

When people say they offer unconditional love, they are being

Ted Santos Book Launch for: Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love

Today is May 18, and it is the debut of my book, Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love.  It is a dynamic book that uncovers, through story, how people sabotage relationships in love, work or play.  I use a real event where five women

Is This Your Mindset When It Comes to Love Relationships?

There are many myths that surround love relationships.  Number 13 is a big myth.  The 13th reason you can’t find love is because you believe relationships take hard work.  There is a French philosopher by the name of Jean Paul Sartre.  He said once you

Are You Trying to Create Love or a Fantasy?

I already talked about how people look for magic.  Today I want to address how relationships were and how the media changed what use to work.  

This idea of romance is new in human history.  It’s about 170 years old.  Before that, marriages were arranged or semi arranged.  The union of the 2 had a

Is It Love That Blinds People? Or Are You Blinded By Something Else?

Reason #10 you can’t find love is because you are waiting for magic.  It’s amazing when you meet women and they tell you that a man should just know what a woman wants.  In fact, they say it is his job to just know.  That is how things magically happen.  Many women believe if a man does romantic stuff, things

Can Good Intentions Turn into Bad Habits?

Number 9 is difficult to escape because we all engage in this activity.  In fact, we are taught to use this skill even if it works against us.  We all judge and assess others to protect self or to find pleasure.  The problem is you can only judge to the extent your

Why Do People Believe Relationships Are Hard Work?

Number 8 is going to sound crazy at first.  Stay with me and think about it.  I am saying the reason your relationships don’t work or you get mediocre at best is because you have never been trained to be in a relationship.  Yes, I said that. 

Think about it.  If you have a billion

Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love

How Do You Handle Problems in Your Relationship?

The number 7 reason could almost appear innocent. You have friends and family who traditionally look out for your best interest.  At least it seems like it should be that way.  At the same time, if you have a successful love relationship, they may be envious of it.  Most likely, they will never tell you that.  Or they will say they are envious of your relationship jokingly.

Are Your Relationships Built on Illusions That Feel Good?

This one is going to be very difficult for most of you.  You have come to depend on it so much that you may not know how to do without it.  The number 6 reason you cannot find love is because you depend on chemistry. 

If you understand the number 5 reason I gave, you begin to understand why you depend on chemistry.  I’m going to say something

A Training Book to Transform Relationships and Corporate Culture

 

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Corporate America Now Has a Handbook for Team Members to

Address the $300B Productivity Suck

The Release of Self-Help Book - Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love

 

PLYMOUTH, MASSACHUSETTS – Briley & Baxter Publications is excited to announce the release of the self-help book, Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love, by author and executive coach, Ted Santos, available on May 18, 2021 via Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Walmart, Kobo and other digital booksellers.  

According to the Life Innovations Study, US businesses are losing

What’s the #9 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

Do You Know How Relationships Work?

The #5 reason you cannot find love is because you lack relationship skills.  While you believe you developed them, most have not.  Everyone knows you hire an engineer to do engineering jobs.  And you hire an accountant to do accountant jobs.  Yet, when it comes to the most important job

Can a Relationship Survive Without This Important Ingredient?

The number four reason you can’t find love is because you don’t know how to cooperate.  In a study, they found couples in healthy relationships were more effective communicators and better at resolving conflict at work than those in unhealthy relationships.  Couples in healthy relationships are people who understand the importance of cooperation and what is required.  It also says cooperative people

What’s the #3 Reason You Will Never Find Love?

The number 3 reason people cannot find love is because they don’t know how to determine who is compatible with them.  Having things in common is

What’s the #2 Reason You Can’t Find Love?

The ability to resolve conflict is a critical skill to have for any relationship.  What’s interesting is in studies, they found that couples in healthy relationships were more effective communicators and better able to resolve conflict in the workplace.  That means conflict resolution skills are transferrable.  Therefore, if you develop those skills at work, you will be able to

What’s the Number One Reason People Can’t Find Love?

Since divorce is costing corporate America $300 billion in lost workplace productivity, I am going to talk about the reasons relationships fail.  In this series, I will discuss top reasons

Why Is Corporate America Losing $300 Billion Every Year?

According to Life Innovations Study, they concluded $300 billion is being lost in workplace productivity every year because of one word.  Divorce!  In any company, a percentage of your employee population is in one of three categories - headed for divorce, in the middle of one or just coming out of it.  With over

Why Is Corporate America Losing $150 Billion Every Year?

Why Is Corporate America Losing $150 Billion Every Year?

According to Harvard Business Review, corporate America is losing $150 billion in workplace productivity every year because of one word.  Divorce!  In a Life Innovations Study, they concluded $300 billion is being lost because of relationship related stress. In any company, a percentage of your employee population is in one of three categories

Next Level of Success

For the past three years, I have been on a provocative and controversial path to provide knowledge and tools people can use in every day life.  I made that decision as a stepping stone for what is about to happen next.  

Thanks for your support during this journey.

Stay tuned. 

Do You Know How to Sell to the CEO?

If you want to increase your odds of closing the deal and selling a larger amount, sell to the CEO.  While it is true getting to the CEO is more difficult, the rewards are worth the patience and effort.  At the same time, once you make contact, you must know how to

Do Health, Wealth and Nutrition Go Together?

Do Health, Wealth and Nutrition Go Together?

We live in an age of information overwhelm.  When it comes to diets, there are thousands of books that guarantee weight loss.  When it comes to exercise, there are trainers that promise the perfect abs.  Yet, the US has the title of the most