This is one of those don’t shoot the messenger conversations. And it’s a big one so put on your seatbelt. The number 30 reason you can’t find love may seem trivial. However, when you peel down layers, you find it is problematic in many ways. This reason has everything to do with how you
I have already spoken about how seeking something outside of the relationship is a poor strategy. The number 29 reason you can’t find love depends 100% on something outside of the couple. When you take a step back and look, it may border abuse.
The number 29 reason you can’t find love is you believe
People say relationships are all about give and take. You even hear about the need to compromise. I assume you compromise by giving in so you can get back later.
The number 28 reason you can’t find love is because you
Ted Santos’ latest book is called, Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love. He wrote the book to usher in a new paradigm of corporate social responsibility.
Problem:
According to Life Innovations Study, they concluded $300 billion is being lost in workplace productivity every year because of one word. Divorce! In any company, a percentage of your employee population is in one of three categories - headed for divorce, in the middle of one or just coming out of it. With over 50% of marriages ending in divorce, many employees are distracted and distraught. That makes them less productive at work.
In addition, according to a divorceanswered.com article, they stated there is a decline in workplace performance by 50%-75% as well as time off to deal with legal, financial and psychological issues related to divorce. Unproductive employees create unprofitable companies, which causes layoffs. Layoffs put financial strain on marriages and cause more divorces. The cycle perpetuates itself.
Up to now, there has been no attempt to stop the bleeding of lost productivity. We accept it as the cost of operating businesses.
On the other hand, there appears to be a phenomenon that is being ignored. Studies show couples in healthy relationships are better at resolving conflict and communicating effectively at work. This shows interpersonal skills are transferrable to and from work.
Solution:
Corporate social responsibility of the future will be corporations transforming society. By training people in critical skills for successful relationships, men and women will learn to implement them at work. Then they will transfer them to home and family life.
In the book, Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love, many of those skills are presented in a story telling fashion. The book highlights one man and five women engaged in a profound conversation about intimate relationships. Interestingly, the book integrates corporate training into a subject most can relate to - love relationships.
Through the book, people will learn about mindset, biases, saboteur behavior, mental barriers, blind spots, effective communication, conflict resolution, collaboration, and more. The book is an introduction. Advance development of those skills will come from workshops that focus on a breakthrough in workplace performance.
While staff and management transform their mindsets and learn new competencies at work, they will bring it home and create a more favorable home life. With a better home life, they will become better employees. The cycle self perpetuates itself.
To purchase a copy of the book: https://brileybaxterbooks.com/author-ted-santos/
The number 27 reason you can’t find love is a big one. And it’s one that is swept under the rug. All you have to do is ask people a simple question: What do you want in a relationship. Most tell you what they
The number 26 reason you can’t find love would seem as though it should not be on the list. It is an activity most have engaged in. While most have, it does not mean they understand it. The number 26 reason you can’t find love is because you
The number 25 reason you can’t find love is one that can be changed over night. As children, the adults in our lives set us up to fail in relationships. When you look at the divorce rate, you see I am not exaggerating. When you look at the amount of relationships that will never make it to marriage, you see most people have failed their relationships before they start. Why??? You
The number 24 reason you can’t find love has a direct impact on your ability to know who is compatible with you. Most people have been taught to base compatibility on surface things, like favorite color, zodiac signs and common interests. They don’t realize your core value system is a major way to match people. And it is the reason many
The number 23 reason is something that is popularly known. You might wonder why I did not already mention it. The #23 reason you can’t find love is because you
I kind of have a cheap plug. Since I have spent my life focusing on how to make relationships work, it’s been more difficult than I thought to list why they fail.
The number 22 reason you can’t find love may be the result of incompetence. Stay with me. I think I’m about to offer a different perspective than most of you anticipate. Number 22 is you
The number 21 reason you can’t find love is major. It’s also related to numbers one and 17 reasons. The number one reason is you don’t listen. The number 17 reason is you listen to a radio station. There is a reason you don’t listen. And number 21 tells you why you are not listening. Number 21 is a
The number 20 reason you can’t find love is an important part of a relationship. Is it enough to make it work, though? The #20 reason you can’t find love is because you believe
The number 19 reason you can’t find love goes against everything you have been taught. When you understand it, you will realize an entirely new possibility for creating extraordinary relationships in all aspects of your life. It may also cause you to reconsider who you allow in your life.
The number 19 reason you can’t find love is
The 18 reason you can’t find love seems illogical if two people are together for love. It would seem they are together to experience things together. When that does not happen, you have to ask what is really happening. The number 18 reason is you will
According to a Life Innovation Study, corporate America is losing $300 billion a year in workplace productivity because of divorce. At any point, a percentage of the employee population is headed for a divorce, in the middle of one or just coming out of it. In a divorceanswered.com article, they say people dealing with divorce have a 50%-75%
The number 17 reason you can’t find love is well highlighted in my most recent book called, Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love. It’s such a major part of everyone’s life that I had to make a big deal of it in the book.
The number 17 reason you can’t find love is because you are listening to
The number 16 reason you can’t find love is surprisingly common. It’s an example of how people sabotage their relationship before it starts. It’s a mindset. The number 16 reason you can’t find love is because you have an exit strategy before it starts. In other words, you have a
The number 15 reason you can’t find love is another one that will pierce the illusion of love. Don’t shoot the messenger. There is a small percentage of couples that understand the reality of what I’m about to say. They usually stay together.
The number 15 reason you can’t find love is because you believe love is
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