Leveraging Transferable Skill Sets

While the corona virus has forced many to work from home, some are now unemployed.  Whether gainfully employed from home or unemployed, everyone has skills that are transferable.  This virus may be presenting

The Creative Alchemist

There is a new podcast in town!  A title inspired by the Novel "The Alchemist" where we pursue our dreams by following our hearts desire. 

Alchemy; the definition: A Magical process of transformation, creation, or combination.

Here we have a podcast where two

Are There Opportunities in Today’s Chaos?

The corona virus, overdue stock market correction and election season creates a perfect storm of volatility in the market place.  Perhaps more than anything these three aspects create a huge sense

Are Mothers Trying to Turn Their Daughters into Men?

There was a time when femininity was treasured.  It had its place in society and intimate relationships.  For the past several decades, women have been shamed for being feminine.  They are told femininity

Are There Consequences for Forcing Girls to Be Boys?

Are Relationships a Waste of Time for Men?

At one time, families married their children to form alliances.  That promoted generational wealth and power.  Because of that, the union of the two children was more important than the idea of marriage.  In subsequent generations, men spent significant time getting to know a woman of his desire.  Both wanted to ensure compatibility before committing to a union.  For the past 150 years, those old traditions

What Happens When Ted Santos Is In the Hot Seat?

Everyone is accustomed to me putting others in the hot seat.  Tonight it will be my turn.  Instead of me having a guest, I will be a guest on my own show.  I will be interviewed by someone you all know.  He is someone known for

Why the Shot You Shot Didn’t Get the Girl You Never Got

When a man says “hello”, it could be “goodbye”.  Why?  In many cases, women believe it is their job to turn a man down.  At the very least, she believes he should try harder for her affection.  In other cases, men have no

Will the Black Community Ever See Unity?

The world has become a global community.  Without a base community in your country, it is difficult to compete on a global scale.  You need a unified team to compete.  Has it always been this way?   

From 1944-1964, the black community experienced its

Are There Benefits to Dating Outside of Your Race?

On the surface, people look different according to race – skin color, hair texture and features.    Each race becomes a tribe.  Those tribes are broken into subclasses based on socioeconomics, education, country, language, religion, etc.  However, many believe there

Have Men Lost Interest in Dating?

This is not an opinion piece.  So don’t shoot the messenger. 

Over the past 10 years, there has been a significant drop in marriage rates.  On one hand, women complain there is a smaller pool of eligible single men.  On the other, men have stated there is a smaller pool of

If You Don’t Do These 10 Things, Your Relationship Will Fall Apart

It’s Never a Man’s Job to Figure Out a Woman’s Love Language

Why Do Women Believe Men Should Be Faithful to Them?

This provocative topic will allow me to introduce an important idea that is completely overlooked in relationships.  At the same time, it is an opportunity to look at the so-called

Is Hybristophilia a Problem in the US?

For those of you who believe I made the word up, I did not. Hybristophilia is a paraphilia in which sexual arousal, facilitation, and attainment of orgasm are responsive to and contingent upon being with a partner known to have committed an outrage, cheating, lying, known infidelities, or crime—such as rape, murder, or armed robbery.  In other words, it is a person who

Do Women Listen to Men?

This is the most important conversation you will ever have about relationships.  Many say communication is the most important part of a relationship.  What they fail to realize is listening is the most important part of communication.  What makes this discussion so important is not

Can Love Relationships Ever Return to What They Used to Be?

Many people reminisce about the good old days.  Even US presidential campaigns have been created about how great things were in the past.  When it comes to relationships, many women believe men were men, back in the day.  They were

Has Divorce Become a Destructive Invisible Hand?

Divorce is a $50 billion industry.  As the industry generates billions, what price are we paying on the backend?

On the surface, divorce seems like a perfectly

Is There Anything More Dangerous to Our Society Than Divorce?

Do Celebrities Influence Women More Than Men?

Many people claim the media does not influence them.  Yet, celebrities initially present the latest hairstyles, clothes, body images and slogans.  Then it is later

Is Toxic Femininity Hurting Society?

Over the past few years, the media has been filled with messages about “toxic masculinity”.  It almost appears that simply being a man is toxic.  We are condemned for being masculine.  It makes me wonder if women are upset that they are incapable of mastering

Do Violent Mothers Make Violent Sons?

Women initiate an enormous amount of violence on men and boys.  As men, we keep our lips sealed.  We have been indoctrinated with the belief that it is improper to discuss bad behavior by women.  We are charged with the responsibility of protecting women, no matter what.  Silence about the violence we endure is one way to protect women.  That silence can create

Is It Worth It to Date Reformed Older Women?

Evelyn Lozada claims she is ready to settle down with the right guy.  She has given up premarital sex and is saving herself for the right man.  Except, she is now 43 and has had more

Do You Know the Wealth Building Strategies of the Affluent?

When it comes to wealth in a capitalistic society, there are rules of engagement.  In a way, it is no different than sports.  When it comes to sports, you must know the rules, train for them, have a strategy and execute like a professional.  When you don’t know the rules of engagement or how to train, you

A Credibility Interview with Ted Santos

The CEOs Job Is to Intentionally Create Problems for the Organization to Solve