Sunday, March 29, 2020

Is the Corona Virus Killing Your Love Relationship?


When you hear the sound “mayday, mayday” on a ship, it is a distress call.  During this quarantine, “mayday” will be the sound of many people in relationships.  Too often, people have come together for the wrong reasons.  During this time of pandemonium, couples will learn whether or not they actually

Thursday, March 26, 2020

Is This Crisis Creating Opportunities for Your Business?


On the surface, it may appear the sky is falling.  However, when you look closer, there are opportunities.  Many of those opportunities will allow you to be of service and help make life easier for others.  On one hand, people may be quarantined in their homes indefinitely.  On the other, there are people who can

Sunday, March 22, 2020

Is the Corona Virus Dangerous for Everyone?


We are in the middle of making history.  The corona virus has completely changed our way of life.  To start, it is taking lives.  Those who survive it are impacted emotionally. In the US, many people are forced to not work, unemployed.  Or they are working from home.  And that creates a dynamic for those who are married and/or have children.  (That is an emotional story of it’s own.)  In addition, it has

Thursday, March 19, 2020

Leveraging Transferable Skill Sets


While the corona virus has forced many to work from home, some are now unemployed.  Whether gainfully employed from home or unemployed, everyone has skills that are transferable.  This virus may be presenting

The Creative Alchemist


There is a new podcast in town!  A title inspired by the Novel "The Alchemist" where we pursue our dreams by following our hearts desire. 

Alchemy; the definition: A Magical process of transformation, creation, or combination.

Here we have a podcast where two

Sunday, March 15, 2020

Are There Opportunities in Today’s Chaos?


The corona virus, overdue stock market correction and election season creates a perfect storm of volatility in the market place.  Perhaps more than anything these three aspects create a huge sense

Sunday, March 8, 2020

Are Mothers Trying to Turn Their Daughters into Men?


There was a time when femininity was treasured.  It had its place in society and intimate relationships.  For the past several decades, women have been shamed for being feminine.  They are told femininity

Sunday, March 1, 2020

Are Relationships a Waste of Time for Men?


At one time, families married their children to form alliances.  That promoted generational wealth and power.  Because of that, the union of the two children was more important than the idea of marriage.  In subsequent generations, men spent significant time getting to know a woman of his desire.  Both wanted to ensure compatibility before committing to a union.  For the past 150 years, those old traditions

Sunday, February 23, 2020

What Happens When Ted Santos Is In the Hot Seat?


Everyone is accustomed to me putting others in the hot seat.  Tonight it will be my turn.  Instead of me having a guest, I will be a guest on my own show.  I will be interviewed by someone you all know.  He is someone known for

Sunday, February 16, 2020

Why the Shot You Shot Didn’t Get the Girl You Never Got


When a man says “hello”, it could be “goodbye”.  Why?  In many cases, women believe it is their job to turn a man down.  At the very least, she believes he should try harder for her affection.  In other cases, men have no

Sunday, February 9, 2020

Will the Black Community Ever See Unity?


The world has become a global community.  Without a base community in your country, it is difficult to compete on a global scale.  You need a unified team to compete.  Has it always been this way?   

From 1944-1964, the black community experienced its

Sunday, February 2, 2020

Are There Benefits to Dating Outside of Your Race?


On the surface, people look different according to race – skin color, hair texture and features.    Each race becomes a tribe.  Those tribes are broken into subclasses based on socioeconomics, education, country, language, religion, etc.  However, many believe there

Sunday, January 26, 2020

Have Men Lost Interest in Dating?


This is not an opinion piece.  So don’t shoot the messenger. 

Over the past 10 years, there has been a significant drop in marriage rates.  On one hand, women complain there is a smaller pool of eligible single men.  On the other, men have stated there is a smaller pool of

Sunday, January 19, 2020

Why Do Women Believe Men Should Be Faithful to Them?


This provocative topic will allow me to introduce an important idea that is completely overlooked in relationships.  At the same time, it is an opportunity to look at the so-called

Sunday, January 12, 2020

Is Hybristophilia a Problem in the US?



For those of you who believe I made the word up, I did not. Hybristophilia is a paraphilia in which sexual arousal, facilitation, and attainment of orgasm are responsive to and contingent upon being with a partner known to have committed an outrage, cheating, lying, known infidelities, or crime—such as rape, murder, or armed robbery.  In other words, it is a person who

Sunday, January 5, 2020

Do Women Listen to Men?


This is the most important conversation you will ever have about relationships.  Many say communication is the most important part of a relationship.  What they fail to realize is listening is the most important part of communication.  What makes this discussion so important is not

Sunday, December 29, 2019

Can Love Relationships Ever Return to What They Used to Be?


Many people reminisce about the good old days.  Even US presidential campaigns have been created about how great things were in the past.  When it comes to relationships, many women believe men were men, back in the day.  They were

Sunday, December 22, 2019

Has Divorce Become a Destructive Invisible Hand?


Divorce is a $50 billion industry.  As the industry generates billions, what price are we paying on the backend?

On the surface, divorce seems like a perfectly

Sunday, December 15, 2019

Do Celebrities Influence Women More Than Men?


Many people claim the media does not influence them.  Yet, celebrities initially present the latest hairstyles, clothes, body images and slogans.  Then it is later

Sunday, December 8, 2019

Is Toxic Femininity Hurting Society?


Over the past few years, the media has been filled with messages about “toxic masculinity”.  It almost appears that simply being a man is toxic.  We are condemned for being masculine.  It makes me wonder if women are upset that they are incapable of mastering