Sunday, June 16, 2019

What Are the Top 3 Problems in the Black Community?


Black people: we’ve got so much work to do.

We act like we've got this thing called Life all figured out, but we don't. We come off like we’re truly making progress as a people, but we’re not.

Whether it’s on our

Sunday, June 9, 2019

Top 10 Relationship Killers!


In January, we gave the top 10 things to do to make a relationship work.  This Sunday we are going to provide the top 10 things you should never do. 

Some of the items on the list may appear to be common sense.  Yet, they

Sunday, June 2, 2019

Can a Man Date Without Spending Money?


Even though most people are seeking love from an intimate relationship, the dating world is filled with traps, dead ends and black holes.  For women, they fear the dead end relationship that is only about sex.  For men, one of their biggest fears is to meet the woman who turns his bank account into a

Sunday, May 26, 2019

What’s Your Advice?


Many of our listeners have come to depend on the solid feedback and information provided on our shows.  To expand that feedback, we have launched a Facebook group under the name Straight Talk.  That group has continued the tradition of provocative and counterintuitive discussions.  In fact, the activity has

Sunday, May 19, 2019

Do Women Have A Problem Dating Men In The Limelight?


It was roughly a week ago this time that the nation began trending and deliberating about NBA superstar Steph Curry’s wife, Mrs. Ayesha Curry. 

For those not in the know, we’ll make it brief. She did an interview with Jada Pinkett Smith. In the discourse with Jada, Ayesha Curry, eluded to the fact that she was “somewhat jealous” of the adulation & attention that her husband receives, being a rich NBA phenom. She lamented to the ‘Red Table Talk’ crew that she wished

Sunday, May 12, 2019

Would You Date Outside Your Race?


For more than a century, the United States has been considered a melting pot.  It is a country where people from all over the world come to find opportunity and make a new life.  In the beginning, different ethnic groups may have had a difficult time coming together because of language differences.  Over time, everyone adopted English and other US customs.  That put everyone on

Sunday, April 28, 2019

Are Men Having Better Luck Finding Love in Other Countries?


For decades, women in the US were asked if money or a great sex life was more important in a relationship.  Until the mid 80s, women said they preferred a great lover over money.  What happened?  How did the value system of women change?  In 2019, the workforce is filled with more women than men.  And many women earn much higher incomes than the past.  Yet, they would

Thursday, April 25, 2019

Are Men Having Better Luck Finding Love in Other Countries?


Some say love is love no matter where you get it.  Others say that you can’t help who you love.  Therefore, love can be found anywhere, even where you are.  However, has love become less of a priority in the US?  Has being

Sunday, April 21, 2019

What Happens After Infidelity?


One of the most damaging events in a love relationship is infidelity.  Even if the couple stays together, there is a residue of mistrust in the air.  Yet, somehow they remain a couple.  However, do people really explore the underlying causes of infidelity?  Or do they simply believe the

Thursday, April 18, 2019

My Partner Cheated….Now What?


The general consensus about WHY people cheat is that there’s a problem with either the cheater – or the relationship. Often we assume cheaters have a history/pathology, or at best a form of immaturity that pushes them into infidelity. We assume the primary relationship is flawed in some significant way that creates a “need” for external sex and intimacy. Either way, we tend to view infidelity as

Sunday, April 14, 2019

Here's Where You Find the Best Relationship Advice

What’s Your Advice?


Many of our listeners have come to depend on the solid feedback and information provided on our shows.  In fact, for the past several weeks, people have been sending Blair and I emails with requests.  People are seeking feedback on their relationship challenges.  Some are married.  Others are single.  The emails and inbox messages are coming from men and women of different ages.  While they have all requested to