Sunday, January 26, 2020

Have Men Lost Interest in Dating?


This is not an opinion piece.  So don’t shoot the messenger. 

Over the past 10 years, there has been a significant drop in marriage rates.  On one hand, women complain there is a smaller pool of eligible single men.  On the other, men have stated there is a smaller pool of

Sunday, January 19, 2020

Why Do Women Believe Men Should Be Faithful to Them?


This provocative topic will allow me to introduce an important idea that is completely overlooked in relationships.  At the same time, it is an opportunity to look at the so-called

Sunday, January 12, 2020

Is Hybristophilia a Problem in the US?



For those of you who believe I made the word up, I did not. Hybristophilia is a paraphilia in which sexual arousal, facilitation, and attainment of orgasm are responsive to and contingent upon being with a partner known to have committed an outrage, cheating, lying, known infidelities, or crime—such as rape, murder, or armed robbery.  In other words, it is a person who

Sunday, January 5, 2020

Do Women Listen to Men?


This is the most important conversation you will ever have about relationships.  Many say communication is the most important part of a relationship.  What they fail to realize is listening is the most important part of communication.  What makes this discussion so important is not

Sunday, December 29, 2019

Can Love Relationships Ever Return to What They Used to Be?


Many people reminisce about the good old days.  Even US presidential campaigns have been created about how great things were in the past.  When it comes to relationships, many women believe men were men, back in the day.  They were

Sunday, December 22, 2019

Has Divorce Become a Destructive Invisible Hand?


Divorce is a $50 billion industry.  As the industry generates billions, what price are we paying on the backend?

On the surface, divorce seems like a perfectly

Sunday, December 15, 2019

Do Celebrities Influence Women More Than Men?


Many people claim the media does not influence them.  Yet, celebrities initially present the latest hairstyles, clothes, body images and slogans.  Then it is later

Sunday, December 8, 2019

Is Toxic Femininity Hurting Society?


Over the past few years, the media has been filled with messages about “toxic masculinity”.  It almost appears that simply being a man is toxic.  We are condemned for being masculine.  It makes me wonder if women are upset that they are incapable of mastering

Sunday, December 1, 2019

Do Violent Mothers Make Violent Sons?


Women initiate an enormous amount of violence on men and boys.  As men, we keep our lips sealed.  We have been indoctrinated with the belief that it is improper to discuss bad behavior by women.  We are charged with the responsibility of protecting women, no matter what.  Silence about the violence we endure is one way to protect women.  That silence can create

Sunday, November 24, 2019

Is It Worth It to Date Reformed Older Women?


Evelyn Lozada claims she is ready to settle down with the right guy.  She has given up premarital sex and is saving herself for the right man.  Except, she is now 43 and has had more

Sunday, November 17, 2019

Do You Know the Wealth Building Strategies of the Affluent?


When it comes to wealth in a capitalistic society, there are rules of engagement.  In a way, it is no different than sports.  When it comes to sports, you must know the rules, train for them, have a strategy and execute like a professional.  When you don’t know the rules of engagement or how to train, you

Thursday, November 14, 2019

Wednesday, November 13, 2019

Transformation Requires You to Unlearn What You've Learned


Sometimes you have to unlearn what you learned before you move forward.

What you have learned can be stalling you like a virus in a computer.

Sunday, November 10, 2019

Has Black Lives Matter Been Beneficial for the Black Community?


Without getting into who funds BLM, George Soros and the Ford Foundation, what has BLM done for the black community?  It seems they are Johnny on the spot when a black man is beaten or killed by non-black police officers.  Yet, they are nowhere to be found when a black man is killed through gang violence.  The paradox is they get great exposure when a black male is abused by law enforcement.  At the same time, they are against

Sunday, November 3, 2019

How Do Fixed or Growth Mindsets Affect Your Love Life?


People with fixed minds are smart.  They have learned much and rely greatly on their abilities and what they already know.  That mindset allows them to navigate the world while using the knowledge they have already acquired.  The growth mind also learns much.  Except, they are more open to venturing into unknown territory.  That unknown territory can have

Sunday, October 27, 2019

Do Strippers Make Good Wives?


At one point, being a stripper was an embarrassment to your family.  Some women did it in secret as a way to work their way through college or earn extra money.  In today’s environment, women applaud one another for being a stripper.  Even the female President of the NAACP, Dr. Cheyenne Bryant,

Sunday, October 20, 2019

Would You Date Your Best Friend’s Ex?


Dating is becoming increasingly complex in the US.  While social constructs are being turned upside down, dating rules have stayed the same.  Women earn more than men.  Yet, men are still responsible for financing dates.  When you add high divorce rates, the fear of infidelity and an enormous amount of unemployed men, dating becomes an almost impossible task.  This has resulted in a

Sunday, October 13, 2019

Are There Benefits for Men in Marriage?


Marriage has come a long way from where it started.  In western culture, marriage was not always a ceremonious event.  It started as a verbal agreement between two people.  Your word was your bond.  If it didn’t work, divorce was just as simple.  However, when it did work, roles were clear and simple.  The couple worked and lived together as a team.  Their cooperative union made life easier.  When children came into the picture, the couple