Some say love is love no matter where you get it. Others say that you can’t help who you love. Therefore, love can be found anywhere, even where you are. However, has love become less of a priority in the US? Has being
Thursday, April 25, 2019
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One of the most damaging events in a love relationship is infidelity. Even if the couple stays together, there is a residue of mistrust in the air. Yet, somehow they remain a couple. However, do people really explore the underlying causes of infidelity? Or do they simply believe the
Thursday, April 18, 2019
The general consensus about WHY people cheat is that there’s a problem with either the cheater – or the relationship. Often we assume cheaters have a history/pathology, or at best a form of immaturity that pushes them into infidelity. We assume the primary relationship is flawed in some significant way that creates a “need” for external sex and intimacy. Either way, we tend to view infidelity as
Sunday, April 14, 2019
Many of our listeners have come to depend on the solid feedback and information provided on our shows. In fact, for the past several weeks, people have been sending Blair and I emails with requests. People are seeking feedback on their relationship challenges. Some are married. Others are single. The emails and inbox messages are coming from men and women of different ages. While they have all requested to
Friday, April 12, 2019
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In 2016, R&B superstar Ciara married Seahawks QB, Russell Wilson. In the world of entertainment, they are a power couple. While the couple lives in a beautiful home in Washington state, there have been rumors that
Wednesday, April 3, 2019
Unless you live on another planet, you’ve no doubt heard multiple discussions on how R&B superstar Ciara & Seahawks QB, Russell Wilson, got together. You may even know why they’re together, who her ex is (rapper Future) and a long dirty
Sunday, March 31, 2019
It’s easy to fall in love. It’s even easier to fall out of love. Many people believe you fall out of love because you missed something between “falling in” and “falling out”. However, when you look at the most successful relationships, there is a step most people miss before “falling in” love.
Part of that first step is about
Friday, March 29, 2019
It’s safe to say that most people want to experience romantic love. Yet, for some reason, many marriages that start with love will end in divorce. That’s not counting the amount of relationships that start and end on a dead end street. How can so many people claim to want the same thing yet be unable to find it?
Perhaps it’s our
Monday, March 25, 2019
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What is a partnership? While there are many definitions, including a business partnership, I will take one from Merriam-Webster. It says “a relationship resembling a legal partnership and usually involving close cooperation between having specified and joint rights and responsibilities”. It also says “an arrangement in which people engage in an activity or business with one another or share something with each other”. In other words, partnership requires a
Thursday, March 21, 2019
In the 21st Century, many singles claim they want a partnership with someone special. Yet, that reality seems to evade them. While some may say the definition of partnership is up to the individual couple, it doesn’t matter how you define it if
Sunday, March 17, 2019
Throughout history, there have been a number of good intentions that have gone bad. In the simplest form, the Good Samaritan helps someone and gets robbed. In other cases, extreme police force has been used to stop crime in places like Washington, DC and the Bronx, NY. In both cases, the crime rate increased. The use of punishment to
Thursday, March 14, 2019
According to Wikipedia: the “Me Too” movement (or #MeToo movement), with a large variety of local and international alternative names, is a movement against sexual harassment and sexual assault. The campaign – sparked by civil rights activist Tarana Burke – began back in 2006.
The movement has since
The movement has since
Sunday, March 10, 2019
Many women believe it’s the man’s job to chase her. Yet, many of those same women never find themselves walking down the aisle of holy matrimony. Why is that? Being chased does not mean the man wants to marry you. While you may be extremely attractive, well educated and gainfully employed, that
Wednesday, March 6, 2019
When people think of marriage, they think of a man first proposing to a woman. However, the question that is rarely asked is: why did he choose that woman? In the US, there are more women than men. Therefore, technically speaking a man has more options for marriage than women do. Yet, he narrows it down to one. Why did he choose?
This question is important because more and more women find
Tuesday, March 5, 2019
This past Sunday on Straight Talk, with Ted Santos & Blair Nash, we had an extremely provocative discussion about s-e-x. And we went places no man has gone before, at least not alone. We explored underlying reasons for infidelity by men. As the callers engaged us, we looked at culture, communication and sexual proclivities. That opened the door to: Are Men
Sunday, March 3, 2019
Is cheating ever justified? If you listen to the cheater, they will attempt to present a full proof case for why they cheated. Yet, for some reason, the infidelity was preceded by lies and deception. If the case was full proof, why would you need to lie?
For decades, we men have
Wednesday, February 27, 2019
For decades, women have chanted: All Men Cheat! When the self fulfilling prophesy comes true, those women become angry and disappointed with men. Why? If you really believe your man will cheat, why not allow him to have a second woman? That way you can mitigate the chances of him sleeping around recklessly.
Besides, there is an age-old debate about monogamy amongst humans. Is monogamy a natural part of human existence? If so, why is it commonly believed that men will cheat? If it’s not, why attempt to force it? Has nature designed men to sleep with many women in order to perpetuate the species? Or is sexual compatibility at the root of the problem?
In previous shows, we uncovered that men and women do not have open and honest conversations about sex and relationships. In fact, most, if not all, don’t listen to one another. If this is the case, perhaps the answer to why men cheat lies in the communication gaps between men and women.
On this show, we are going to strip the topic of sex down to naked truths, even if they are ugly. With those truths, we are going to make the case for why men should be allowed to have a second woman. If a second woman is not the answer, we will uncover what men have been asking for and not receiving in love.
Join us this Sunday, March 3, from 7:00pm-8:30pm (EST) at Straight Talk with Ted Santos and Blair Nash on Blog Talk Radio.
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