Do Celebrities Influence Women More Than Men?

Many people claim the media does not influence them.  Yet, celebrities initially present the latest hairstyles, clothes, body images and slogans.  Then it is later

Is Toxic Femininity Hurting Society?

Over the past few years, the media has been filled with messages about “toxic masculinity”.  It almost appears that simply being a man is toxic.  We are condemned for being masculine.  It makes me wonder if women are upset that they are incapable of mastering

Do Violent Mothers Make Violent Sons?

Women initiate an enormous amount of violence on men and boys.  As men, we keep our lips sealed.  We have been indoctrinated with the belief that it is improper to discuss bad behavior by women.  We are charged with the responsibility of protecting women, no matter what.  Silence about the violence we endure is one way to protect women.  That silence can create

Is It Worth It to Date Reformed Older Women?

Evelyn Lozada claims she is ready to settle down with the right guy.  She has given up premarital sex and is saving herself for the right man.  Except, she is now 43 and has had more

Do You Know the Wealth Building Strategies of the Affluent?

When it comes to wealth in a capitalistic society, there are rules of engagement.  In a way, it is no different than sports.  When it comes to sports, you must know the rules, train for them, have a strategy and execute like a professional.  When you don’t know the rules of engagement or how to train, you

A Credibility Interview with Ted Santos

The CEOs Job Is to Intentionally Create Problems for the Organization to Solve

Transformation Requires You to Unlearn What You've Learned

Sometimes you have to unlearn what you learned before you move forward.

What you have learned can be stalling you like a virus in a computer.

Has Black Lives Matter Been Beneficial for the Black Community?

Without getting into who funds BLM, George Soros and the Ford Foundation, what has BLM done for the black community?  It seems they are Johnny on the spot when a black man is beaten or killed by non-black police officers.  Yet, they are nowhere to be found when a black man is killed through gang violence.  The paradox is they get great exposure when a black male is abused by law enforcement.  At the same time, they are against

Does Black Lives Matter, Matter to the Black Community?

How Do Fixed or Growth Mindsets Affect Your Love Life?

People with fixed minds are smart.  They have learned much and rely greatly on their abilities and what they already know.  That mindset allows them to navigate the world while using the knowledge they have already acquired.  The growth mind also learns much.  Except, they are more open to venturing into unknown territory.  That unknown territory can have

Is Your Mindset Killing Your Relationships?

Do Strippers Make Good Wives?

At one point, being a stripper was an embarrassment to your family.  Some women did it in secret as a way to work their way through college or earn extra money.  In today’s environment, women applaud one another for being a stripper.  Even the female President of the NAACP, Dr. Cheyenne Bryant,

Here’s Why You Will Never Have Economic Power

Would You Date Your Best Friend’s Ex?

Dating is becoming increasingly complex in the US.  While social constructs are being turned upside down, dating rules have stayed the same.  Women earn more than men.  Yet, men are still responsible for financing dates.  When you add high divorce rates, the fear of infidelity and an enormous amount of unemployed men, dating becomes an almost impossible task.  This has resulted in a

Are There Benefits for Men in Marriage?

Marriage has come a long way from where it started.  In western culture, marriage was not always a ceremonious event.  It started as a verbal agreement between two people.  Your word was your bond.  If it didn’t work, divorce was just as simple.  However, when it did work, roles were clear and simple.  The couple worked and lived together as a team.  Their cooperative union made life easier.  When children came into the picture, the couple

Is Marriage a Bad Idea for Men?

Interview: 20 Questions with Ted Santos & Tim Kirk

Tim Kirk sits down with Ted Santos to ask some of the most revealing 20 questions about life, career and business.  Tim is the producer of Two Zero Q – 20 Questions with Interesting People.  Ted is the Chairman of the Board of Veteran CEOs.  He is also an executive coach to CEOs and other executives.  He helps them create disruptive strategies.  Then build a corporate culture that is capable of executing the disruptive strategy.  

This interview is kind of like a who are you and how did you get to where you are.  

It's a show you won't want to miss.  Join us for a high impact, counterintuitive show that will leave you thinking.  

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Cognitive Dissonance: What Is It and How Is It Ruining Your Love Life?

When people experience something that questions or invalidates their beliefs, they figure out a way to ignore the new information.  Think of the cigarette smoker who learns of the health risks of smoking.  They can simply respond with “we’re all going to die anyway”.  In the 21st Century, people embrace the slogan of

What Happens When Your Truth Is a Lie?

Are Arranged Marriages Better for Society?

On September 29th, I did a talk show about arranged marriages.  For some reason, it sparked controversy.  A couple of men and most women were upset about being forced to marry someone they didn’t love.  Yet, over 50% of marriages fail.  That means, even though most couples enter matrimony in the name of love, the

Here’s Why Arranged Marriages Are Needed Now More Than Ever

On the surface, arranged marriages sound absurd.  For some, it may sound like oppression.  At the same time, the institution of marriage is in trouble.  Large numbers of men are losing interest in dating or marrying.  Conversely, women’s desire to marry is

Are Addictions the Greatest Threats to Dating and Marriage?

What Do You Do When You Find the One and You Are Not the One For the One?

As children, we are taught about finding that special person.  That person is called the “One”.  They are the person who makes us feel special and we want to spend the rest our lives with them.  We even tell the world that we have found our soul mate.  However, are we told how to

What Happens When You Find the “One” But They Don’t Think You’re the “On...

How Should We Deal With Women Who File False Rape Charges?

Rape is a horrible crime.  It seems most believe perpetrators of the crime should be punished.  However, when a man is falsely accused of rape, his entire life can be ruined.  And the woman walks away without a slap on the wrist.  When a man rapes someone, the penalty is severe.  That is to discourage the crime.  If there is no penalty for