In your personal or professional life, breakdowns
occur. When I say breakdowns, it
includes problems, disruptions, challenges, chaos, misfortune, disaster, etc. When it comes to business, in many
cases, the larger the goal the larger the breakdown. If you’re a leader, the way you handle those problems can
Tuesday, May 15, 2018
Tuesday, May 08, 2018
What Happens When Leadership Does Not Create a Corporate Culture?
I have worked as an executive and advisor to CEOs in variousindustries. In either capacity, I
have noticed a pattern. One
pattern is that high performing companies have a culture of high
accountability. Low performing
organizations tend to have toxic cultures and confusion. Nevertheless, effective leaders can
always
Tuesday, May 01, 2018
What Is Leadership?
Perhaps the shortest and easiest answer to “what is
leadership?” is: there is no leadership.
At least there is no such thing as the archetypal leader who, as the
dictionary says, “is the action of leading a group of people or an organization”. Or it is said to be “a state or
position of being the leader”.
What’s odd about the definitions is they are both
Tuesday, April 24, 2018
What Does Your Intimate Life Have to Do with Your Professional Life?
On the surface, it would seem your professional and intimate
lives are worlds apart. However,
when you peel back the layers, you find patterns that are mirrored in
both. For example, whatever upsets
you in your personal life will upset you in the workplace, even if you are
taught to suppress it at work.
Eventually those upsets will
Tuesday, April 17, 2018
Here’s Why Leadership Books Will Never Make You a Great Leader
If you want to read about leadership, go into any
bookstore. Or search the
Internet. You’ll find millions of
entries online and thousands of copies in bookstores. And every book has the answer. They tell you to be a situational leader, primal leader,
emotionally intelligent leader, servant leader and the list goes on. Yet, many, many people still struggle with
being an effective leader. And
even more people are
Tuesday, April 10, 2018
Here’s Why Your Words Have No Power
When you learn your first language, it is to ensure you are
able to communicate with others.
Before you learn a language, you cry to be fed or to have your diaper
changed. Language allows you to speak
instead of cry. Once language is
acquired, most people use it to communicate what they want or don’t want. Therefore, it is a tool. However, it is one of the most
Tuesday, February 20, 2018
Are Leaders Really Needed in Organizations?
Leadership. Is
it really essential to have leaders in an organization? For the past few decades, there have
been companies that have eliminated titles. There are no CEOs, presidents or managers. In some cases, there are no individual
owners. The employees own the
company. In today’s business
model, some call it a
Tuesday, January 30, 2018
Great Leaders Don’t Tell You What to Do
In many cases, people become managers because they solve
problems better than others. And
problems solvers can be rather proud about telling others about how to
implement solutions they have discovered.
While being a problem solver may be a normal path to management, it is a trap. For those managers who move
to senior management, being the best problem solver can become
Tuesday, January 09, 2018
Here’s Why You Are Inadvertently a Huge Trump Supporter
Perhaps there has never been such disdain for a president of
the US as there has been for President Trump. While the majority of the US population voted for his
opponent, Hilary Clinton, the electorate votes made Trump the winner. Therefore, more than half of the US
citizens opposed President Trump from the beginning. Yet, in their desire to invalidate him, they will ensure he
Tuesday, December 26, 2017
Here’s Why Knowledge Transfer from One Generation to the Next Is Rarely Effective
Knowledge transfer is critical for the survival of
mankind. However, as each
generation eliminates threats, the knowledge that is transferred has to account
for that. In previous articles, I wrote about the unintentional knowledge transfer that sabotages the best
efforts of any person or society.
That happens because people still have the mindset that was necessary
when the threat existed. In this
article, I will outline one of the most
Tuesday, December 19, 2017
Can You Unlearn the Addictive Behaviors You Learned?
Everyone with a healthy brain is influenced by their
environment. Everything in your
environment that you see, hear and touch is recorded in your brain. Those recordings become part of your
memory and shape what you think, say and do. Therefore, it’s imperative to expose your brain to that
which makes you smarter and more effective. Except, in the human paradigm, you unknowingly
Wednesday, December 13, 2017
Interview with Ted Santos: Corporate consultant motivational speaker
Are You Passing Your Addictive Behaviors to the Next Generation?
In the past, I wrote an article about second chances. In the article, I talked about the need
to coach, guide or train people before you give them a second chance. Otherwise, they will most likely repeat
the same mistake. They may repeat
the same mistake because they may have retained the same mindset they had for
the first chance. This first
chance mindset is not only possessed by the individual it is
Tuesday, December 05, 2017
In the Words of Yoda: The Counterintuitive Path Take, If You Wish, From Breakdown to Breakthrough Go You Will
The way is the problem you want. The problem is the way. To avoid the problem is to avoid the way. In other words, problems are not theproblem. Believing problems are
problems is the beginning of your problems. It is not chaos or problems that are problems. It is how you think about them. And it is how you think about
Tuesday, November 28, 2017
Nope, It’s Definitely Not Persistence That Will Get You to the Championship
Last week I talked about how inherited conversations cancreate mental barriers. Those
mental barriers create a mindset that can derail personal or professional
aspirations. Today I would like to
use myself as an example of what happens when the mental barriers are
Tuesday, November 21, 2017
Do You Believe Persistence Creates Success?
For centuries, people have chanted that the most persistent
person wins the prize. In this
article, I am going to challenge that belief. I assert that it is not persistence that makes the
difference. It is the stripping
away of beliefs that allows an individual to keep going. While I understand that people in the
stands watching a sporting event have opinions about successful athletes. On the field, there is something
happening that the fans
Tuesday, November 14, 2017
Would You Choose Eudaimonia Over Happiness?
Eudaimonia is a word from ancient Greece. People like Socrates, Plato, Aristotle
and others taught it in Greece.
(Where they learned it is another article.) In English, it is often misinterpreted as happiness. However, the Greeks had no obsession
with happiness. They were focused
on fulfillment. Furthermore, they
sought fulfillment through
Tuesday, November 07, 2017
Why Most People Rarely Learn Anything New
The human brain has an enormous capacity to learn. The paradox is it is filled with blindspots that limit learning capacity.
For the most part, you only think the way you were taught to think. In effect, the way you do things is the
way you do everything. The way you
do things is shaped by the way you see things. The way you see things is shaped by the way you think or your
thought process. Your thought
process is an amalgamation of your brain’s syntax. Your environment shapes your syntax. And your environment gives you the
facts of life. Unlearning the
learned facts is
Tuesday, October 31, 2017
Should You Give People a Second Chance?
People talk about second chances in various ways. They say: “if I knew then what I know
now.” “If I had an opportunity to
do things over.” “Please give me a
second chance.” “Can we start
over?” The list goes on. Most people actually believe they learn
from their mistakes. However, when
you look closely, you see
Tuesday, October 24, 2017
What Happens When We Disagree?
Disagreement is part of the human paradigm. The human paradigm is like nature. In nature, there are plants that
sustain life and there are plants that destroy life for humans. If you have not been trained to eat
healthy plants in nature, you can easily eat a plant that will poison you. And there are plants that can help and
hurt your body, depending on the amount administered. Principally speaking, the same happens with relationships
from elements in the human paradigm.
For example, disagreement is thought to be
Tuesday, October 17, 2017
Does the Board of Directors Affect Corporate Culture?
What is the role of the board of directors? Some say it is to protect the
shareholders’ value. In other
words, they are there to ensure the money of investors continues to grow. Others say the board is there to
oversee the CEO and make sure he or she constantly and profitably grows the
business. Perhaps the board is
there to ensure all
Tuesday, October 10, 2017
Is Coaching Worth the Investment?
In a world where time is money, managers need people who can
take action immediately. They
search for employees who already have the skills, competency and capability to
work with little supervision.
Combined with ever changing businesses and technology, companies claim
there is no time to train and coach people effectively. Instead they chant do it now!
However, the idea of do it faster, smarter, and better is in
Tuesday, October 03, 2017
How Prepared Is Your Board for Cyberspace?
In the wake of the recent Equifax debacle, boards of
directors are rethinking their cyber security readiness. Equifax was warned about the weaknesses
in their cyber security and did nothing.
When they did discover it was breached, they waited months to inform the
public. As time went on, it
appeared they were focused on covering their butts. The result is 143 million people have had
Tuesday, September 26, 2017
What Will You Leave Behind?
As part of my entrepreneurial growth, I created meaningful
relationships with CEOs. Some became clients. Others were sounding boards for my clients and myself. Through those relationships, I have
been able to explore and transform leadership at its highest level. In that mix of CEOs, some were running
companies, while others were retired. One of the amazing conversations with
retired CEOs of Fortune 500s is their desire to contribute. Like all people who contribute, they
seek some level of self-interest.
That self-interest can be summed up in one word
Tuesday, September 05, 2017
You Can’t Go Back
Yesterday is gone.
No matter what you do January 1st, 2001 will not come back. It doesn’t exist and neither does
tomorrow. To lament over actions
you took or didn’t take will not change what actually happened in the
past. Yet, so many people live
with regrets that create emotional paralysis. They live with the philosophy of ‘if I could have, should
have, wish I had, etc.’. To my
knowledge, no one has been given the
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