What’s the Single Most Important Thing to Do When Dating?

Here’s How Women Are Scaring Men Away From Marriage

Does an Abundance of Money in Marriage Guarantee Eternal Bliss?

In 2016, R&B superstar Ciara married Seahawks QB, Russell Wilson.  In the world of entertainment, they are a power couple.  While the couple lives in a beautiful home in Washington state, there have been rumors that

Is It Possible to Marry Someone Wealthy and Still Lose?

Unless you live on another planet, you’ve no doubt heard multiple discussions on how R&B superstar Ciara & Seahawks QB, Russell Wilson, got together.  You may even know why they’re together, who her ex is (rapper Future) and a long dirty

How Do You Know You’re Choosing the Right Person for a Love Relationship?

It’s easy to fall in love.  It’s even easier to fall out of love.  Many people believe you fall out of love because you missed something between “falling in” and “falling out”.  However, when you look at the most successful relationships, there is a step most people miss before “falling in” love. 

Part of that first step is about

What Comes Before Love in an Intimate Relationship?

It’s safe to say that most people want to experience romantic love.  Yet, for some reason, many marriages that start with love will end in divorce.  That’s not counting the amount of relationships that start and end on a dead end street.  How can so many people claim to want the same thing yet be unable to find it? 

Perhaps it’s our

The Ugly Truth About Why Men Don’t Communicate

Do You Know How to Transform Your Intimate Relationship into a Partnership?

What is a partnership?  While there are many definitions, including a business partnership, I will take one from Merriam-Webster.  It says “a relationship resembling a legal partnership and usually involving close cooperation between parties having specified and joint rights and responsibilities”.  It also says “an arrangement in which people engage in an activity or business with one another or share something with each other”.  In other words, partnership requires a

Does a Man Win or Lose When He Chooses to Be a Player?

Here’s Why Your Love Relationship Won’t Turn into a Powerful Partnership

In the 21st Century, many singles claim they want a partnership with someone special.  Yet, that reality seems to evade them.  While some may say the definition of partnership is up to the individual couple, it doesn’t matter how you define it if

Will the “Me Too” Movement Backfire on Women?

Throughout history, there have been a number of good intentions that have gone bad.  In the simplest form, the Good Samaritan helps someone and gets robbed.  In other cases, extreme police force has been used to stop crime in places like Washington, DC and the Bronx, NY.  In both cases, the crime rate increased.  The use of punishment to

Has the “Me Too” Movement Become Bad for Society?

According to Wikipedia: the “Me Too” movement (or #MeToo movement), with a large variety of local and international alternative names, is a movement against sexual harassment and sexual assault. The campaign – sparked by civil rights activist Tarana Burke – began back in 2006.

The movement has since

How Does a Woman Get a Man to Marry Her?

Many women believe it’s the man’s job to chase her.  Yet, many of those same women never find themselves walking down the aisle of holy matrimony.  Why is that?  Being chased does not mean the man wants to marry you.  While you may be extremely attractive, well educated and gainfully employed, that

Here’s Why Women Don’t Understand Men

Should Women Have to “Seal the Marriage Deal”?

When people think of marriage, they think of a man first proposing to a woman.  However, the question that is rarely asked is: why did he choose that woman?  In the US, there are more women than men.  Therefore, technically speaking a man has more options for marriage than women do.  Yet, he narrows it down to one.  Why did he choose?

This question is important because more and more women find

If “All” Men Cheat, Why Not Allow Them to Have a Second Woman?

This past Sunday on Straight Talk, with Ted Santos & Blair Nash, we had an extremely provocative discussion about s-e-x.  And we went places no man has gone before, at least not alone.  We explored underlying reasons for infidelity by men.  As the callers engaged us, we looked at culture, communication and sexual proclivities.  That opened the door to: Are Men

Are Men Afraid to Say Why They Cheat?

Is cheating ever justified?  If you listen to the cheater, they will attempt to present a full proof case for why they cheated.  Yet, for some reason, the infidelity was preceded by lies and deception.  If the case was full proof, why would you need to lie?

For decades, we men have

If “All” Men Cheat, Why Not Allow Them to Have a Second Woman?

For decades, women have chanted: All Men Cheat!  When the self fulfilling prophesy comes true, those women become angry and disappointed with men.  Why?  If you really believe your man will cheat, why not allow him to have a second woman?  That way you can mitigate the chances of him sleeping around recklessly.   

Besides, there is an age-old debate about monogamy amongst humans.  Is monogamy a natural part of human existence?  If so, why is it commonly believed that men will cheat?  If it’s not, why attempt to force it?  Has nature designed men to sleep with many women in order to perpetuate the species?  Or is sexual compatibility at the root of the problem?   

In previous shows, we uncovered that men and women do not have open and honest conversations about sex and relationships.  In fact, most, if not all, don’t listen to one another.  If this is the case, perhaps the answer to why men cheat lies in the communication gaps between men and women. 

On this show, we are going to strip the topic of sex down to naked truths, even if they are ugly.  With those truths, we are going to make the case for why men should be allowed to have a second woman.  If a second woman is not the answer, we will uncover what men have been asking for and not receiving in love.

Join us this Sunday, March 3, from 7:00pm-8:30pm (EST) at Straight Talk with Ted Santos and Blair Nash on Blog Talk Radio. 

Call to comment live at: (323) 642-1387. 

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What’s Your Financial IQ?

If you’re a man, you already know that you can’t buy love.  However, without money, you can’t buy food, shelter, clothing, transportation, etc.  Without those things, there’s a chance you won’t even capture the attention of a woman.  When you think about it that way, it starts to become

How Important Is Financial Fitness in Your Love Relationship?

Turn on any news media station that speaks about money and they speak in a way that comes off like everyone has endless reserves of cash. You hear the financial gurus who talk about “what you should do is take $150,000 liquid cash purchase the stocks of a corporation trading on the stock exchange, or t-bills, bearer bonds, global funds, or some other high end annuities”.

But let’s talk

Has Dating Become a Trap for Women?

Has Dating Become a Trap for Women?

How Do You Go From “I Do” to “I Don’t”?

Wedding vows usually say, “Until death do up part”.  Two people who claim they want to spend the rest of their lives together make those vows.  Yet, a significant number of those couples turn to divorce court to settle irreconcilable differences.  What happens?

If you speak to the ex-husband, he will say it was his ex-wife’s fault.  And the wife will have her story.  Are people simply making poor choices in a spouse?  Or do people lack the skills to have a relationship? 

Join us today for another thought provoking discussion.  We are going to talk about the good the bad and the ugly.  We are going to understand how people destroy great relationships and what you can do to avoid those deadly mistakes. 

Tonight, February 17, from 7:00pm-8:30pm (EST) at Straight Talk with Ted Santos and Blair Nash.

To hear the show live, click: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ted_blair/2019/02/18/the-path-from-happily-ever-after-to-irreconcilable-differences   

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The Path From “Happily Ever After” To “Irreconcilable Differences”

We’ve all seen the images:  a happy Couple, trapped in a euphoria of bliss. Excited for the future. Making plans of multiple children, exotic trips, building a home from the ground up….

Creating a LEGACY.

Even the wedding was

Why Men Don’t Trust

Has humanity lost sight of the fact men are human beings first?  Are we raising boys to be part of humanity?  Are we giving them the tools to be leaders in their communities or businesses? 

To answer these questions and many more, we will have a very special guest.  Lori Miller is a practicing psychologist who works with men.  For 30 years, she has worked in

Have Men Lost Trust in Society?

Has society abandoned men?  Has the term toxic masculinity become toxic for men?  In the US, there are more homeless men than women.  Significantly more men give their lives in the military – over the last 20 years over 6,800 men died and 46 women from enemy fire.  Furthermore, men commit 77% of suicides.  And society does not blink when men die.  What’s just as troubling and has been ignored is that the US is the first