This may be the most controversial article you’ve ever
read. At the same time,
controversial conversations can alter your perspective of reality. Altered perspectives can usher in new
actions.
I wish this were an easy conversation. It’s not. It really is analogous to telling
the scientific world that
the earth is not the center of the universe. Copernicus was ostracized for that. Therefore, there is a social risk to
say everything I am about to say.
To start, mindset is key. The mindset you have is a reflection of the reality you were
given. The only reality you can
have is the one your environment gave you. If you were told the earth was the center of the universe,
that is your reality, even if it is not a fact. That is an example of how one’s environment has blind
spots.
One of the biggest problems with the reality you were given is you believe it is right. And
you will do anything to defend it.
That has been part of the reason for wars and all kinds of
disputes. People would rather be
right about the belief system their environment gave them. That’s the stuff religious dogma is
made of.
To set the stage, you have been taught white supremacy. That’s an oxymoron. Those two words cannot go together as
long as you – black people – exist anywhere in the universe. Whites have known this for
decades. I’m aware that in the
1950s hospitals started testing infants immediately after birth. They tested a black and white baby side
by side. The black child always
clearly demonstrated superior and advanced brain function and motor
skills. The fact black Americans
complain about white supremacy is an example of how you promote things that
don’t exist. In fact, every time
you talk about it you speak it into existence.
In 1994, racism died.
Black Americans were embraced in the business and political world in a
way that had not happened, in what is called the United States of America. The fact it died is the reason the
stage was set for Barak Obama to win the presidential campaign. Before Obama, you had the first black
governor in the US: Doug Wilder in Virginia – 1990-1994. Also, David Dinkins as mayor of NYC
1990-1993. Whether people liked
Wilder or Dinkins was irrelevant.
Both men proved it was possible for a black person to run for office,
win and serve their term. Doors
opened after this. For example,
the first black person to become CEO of a major publicly traded company was
Robert “Bob” Holland. He became
CEO of Ben & Jerry’s in 1995.
Many black Americans missed the open door. Instead of walking through it, they complained. If they would have
trained and developed themselves for the opportunities on the other side of the
door, they would have exploited the marketplace and hired one another, once
inside. This could have happened
if you were an employee or entrepreneur.
By the way, college degree does not prepare you for the opportunities on
the other side of the door.
Constant training and development has to happen. Professional athletes understand
that. That is why a person like
Usain Bolt is able to break his own world records. It is also the reason people like Steve Jobs can attain his
level of success after completing only one semester of college.
Part of what black Americans complained about was the result
of interracial fighting. Black men
and women were engaged in a battle of the sexes. That was and has always been a distraction. Now that the black family structure has
been decimated, black Americans are waking up. However, you are waking up to the aftermath of war. And it is still happening with black
men shooting one another. Too many
boys grew up without a father. Too
many women said they didn’t need a man.
While it is true that white women put bait out for black women with the
feminist movement, they did not have to take it. When you take bait from someone, you allow them to shape
your environment and create your reality.
Now you’re in an ugly hole and have no idea how you got there. If you look back, there has been one
distraction after another. Now
poverty has increased in the black community compared to 1965 when over 70% of
black households had both biological parents. Incarceration also increased while the percentage of black
businesses has decreased.
Stop taking the bait!
If it is not about economic power in the black community, it’s a
distraction. That includes
protesting, fighting and complaining.
You cannot protest your way to success. You have to build.
Going forward the choice is yours.
Take the bait or create.
What do you
think? I would love to hear your feedback. And I’m open to ideas.
Or if you want to write me about a specific topic, let me know.
Wow! Thank you for writing and for shading light and offering hope. Blaming, complaining and making excuses never works. There is no such thing as a good excuse. When you blame and complain you lose control and empower your circumstances and advisories to rule over you. There is one human race and the black and white divide is a bogus social construct. Get over it!
ReplyDeleteWow! Thank you and you're welcome. You got what I was saying. Yes, complaining does give your power to the other. It also allows them to give you crumbs to silence you. Those crumbs create a mindset of complacency.
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