"The
cyclone derives its powers from a calm center. So does a person." Norman Vincent Peale
A
cyclone creates chaos and so does life. When most people are in chaos, they try
to fix what is out of control. It is that learned behavior that drives us to
attempt to control our environment. However, control is a myth.
Like
the cyclone, the power we possess cannot be found by fixing what is out of
order. The power can be found by centering ourselves. We do that by getting
clear about the outcomes we would like to produce in the face of chaos.
For
example, in what is called a recession, jobs are lost. Job loss can create a
panic. There is nothing you can do about the recession or the lost jobs. If you
complain about either, you will be left with the satisfaction of complaining.
If
the outcome you are seeking is a new job, then you will be better to manage all
resources at your disposal towards planning and finding the job of your choice.
And I am clear that when one is in the midst of chaos, they do not want to hear
about positive thinking. Therefore, I am not suggesting positive thinking. I
assert that if you get crystal clear about what you would like to accomplish
within a specific time period, you will b e able to manage the outcomes to
which you are committed.
If
you make your daily thoughts and conversations with others about what you are
committed to accomplishing, you will find opportunities open up that you may
have overlooked because you were in a state of complaining or feeling sorry for
yourself.
My
point to all of this is that if you focus on the chaotic things that life
throws around like a cyclone, you and your mind will go in so many directions
that you will lose your way. In other words, by trying to control the chaos,
you will find yourself being spun out of control. On the other hand, if you
calm your mind and focus on what you would like to accomplish, you will
experience the calmness found at the center of the cyclone.
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