“If
everything seems under control, you’re just not going fast enough.” – Mario
Andretti
According
to Andretti, the thing many people crave impedes progress. In a world where we
are obsessed with making everything predictable and controllable, we miss the
possibility of
In
business, we have personality analyses, 360 assessments, market research and
political correctness. It’s all designed to allow for control and predictability.
Without it, there is fear of anarchy.
With
control mechanisms, we are able to wrap our lives in beautiful boxes tied with
exquisite ribbons. From Andretti’s perspective, it happens at a huge cost. We
miss out on the thrill of functioning at our absolute best. As we increase the
amount of mechanisms to avoid the fear of unpredictability, we eventually
experience the opposite. We crave control out of fear. Perhaps we fear how we
will handle ourselves when things are beyond our control. Yet, as each event in
our lives becomes more predictable, we lose our ability to manage one of life’s
natural occurrences – chaos.
Those
who manage chaos best become the sought after leaders. Why? They seem to be
able to bring order from chaos. Perhaps they figured out that it is more
valuable to dance with chaos rather than avoid it. Like the professional
racecar driver, the goal is to dance with high speed. If you are in control of
the vehicle, you are going to slow. The one who drives fastest throughout the
race wins.
Therefore,
in reality, control is the enemy. Perhaps it is even a myth. Most of us cannot
control what we think. We have fleeting thoughts that seem to come from
nowhere. Furthermore, when our significant other, relatives or coworkers do
something we dislike, we lose control emotionally. And we justify is by saying
that is just what it means to be human.
Perhaps
it is time we become responsible human beings and collectively decide what it
means to be human. Besides, I have no idea who made up the rules for what it
means to be human. What if the paradigm we live in is erroneous? No one really
questions it. We simply agree to
it. What if to be human means you are powerful in the face of chaos? What new
mental models would we have to create to be that kind of human being? Perhaps
high performing athletes who produce extraordinary results possess that kind of
mindset.
For
years, we have been told what it means to be human. Maybe it is time to let go
of what we believe it means to be human and start to invent what it means. We
may find out that it is natural for people to be comfortable and effective in
chaos. More importantly, we may find that in chaos we have the best chance of
being all that we can be. Then we would know what it means to go fast enough.
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