We’ve all heard the saying: no man is an island. Yet, a select few, including myself, persist with the contrasting philosophy of being an island. Napoleon Hill, on the other hand, speaks explicitly about the power of 2 or more minds committed to a definite purpose. Hill called this coming together of people a mastermind.
Hill says that to accomplish anything great, 2 or more people must put their minds together. He compares it to the natural elements. When you mix hydrogen and oxygen in the correct proportion, you get water. While both elements are important, neither can create water on it’s own. He said the ideal number in a mastermind is 6-7 people. Depending on the size of the goal, 12-13 can be perfect.
He further explains that when a man and woman come together for a definite purpose,it is the best of all worlds. He believed that the intimacy only enhanced their ability to be creative. He did, however, state that the individuals in the group would need to meet certain criteria.
First, you have to have a definite purpose for bringing the group together. If each person in the group provides specific talent that others do not possess, you must be able to employ those skills in a way that benefit everyone involved.
Second, if you bring the group together, it is critical that you be of value to each of the members. If not, the relationship would have no way of sustaining itself and would eventually fall apart.
Third, if any person in the group loses confidence in you, remove them from the group.
Hill was so convinced about the importance of a mastermind that he promoted this philosophy for every husband and wife who had a harmonious relationship. He believed that even boyfriend and girlfriend should choose someone who could be a member of their mastermind.
He saw the mastermind as a foundation for personal and professional achievement as well as a source for generating wealth. At the same time, those who choose to go it alone will use much more energy than an intimate couple and an intimate couple will expend more than a group of 6 or 7.
While I am an example of being an island, I have also seen the clear benefits of having a relationship with a woman who is capable of creating an empowering relationship. In fact, I attribute my success in my personal and professional life to the times I allowed myself to combine my mind with another. Without question, it is an amazing experience.
If you look at some of the people who have made history in the US, the idea of partnership is validated. Henry Ford was once a laborer who was very shy. His wife is said to have been the first member of his mastermind. She empowered him to be the man who made history. The partnerships Ford and other accomplished men had with their wives were not only extraordinary they were harmonious.
I encourage you to first focus on creating a harmonious relationship with your significant other. In addition, make yourself a valuable resource to him or her. From there, envision a definite purpose the 2 of you can work towards. As that vision expands, you may have to invite other people to be part of your mastermind.
Since no great man is an island, a powerful partnership must be factored in as a contributing part of your success.
Two minds are better than one. Harmony helps get the job done.
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