On the surface, the answer may appear obvious to many men. However, when you take a deep dive into the reality, the answer may change.
The player is the guy who never or rarely commits to one woman. Instead, he develops akeen skill for meeting and mating with as many women as possible. His insight into women is clear. His words are carefully chosen to put her at ease and make her feel free. And he knows what to say and what not to say. Some call him smooth.
To some guys, he looks as though he is winning. The question is what is he winning?
On the flip side, there is the guy who is a one-woman man. He seeks marriage and children, the family guy. In his mind, he too is winning.
Is the player a player because he is afraid of a failed marriage? Is it really advantageous to be with many different women? Is the married guy afraid of being alone? Does marriage really benefit men?
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