This past Sunday on Straight Talk, with Ted Santos & Blair Nash, we had an
extremely provocative discussion about s-e-x. And we went places no man has gone before, at least not
alone. We explored underlying
reasons for infidelity by men. As
the callers engaged us, we looked at culture, communication and sexual
proclivities. That opened the door
to: Are Men
Afraid to Say Why They Really Cheat?
For generations, women have chanted: All Men Cheat! When the self-fulfilling prophecy comes
true, those women become angry and disappointed with men. Why? If you really believe your man will cheat, why not allow him
to have a second woman? That way
you can mitigate the chances of him sleeping around recklessly.
Besides, there is an age-old debate about monogamy amongst
humans. Is monogamy a natural part
of human existence? If so, why is
it commonly believed that men will cheat?
If it’s not, why attempt to force it? Has nature designed men to sleep with many women in order to
perpetuate the species? Or is
sexual compatibility at the root of the problem?
While sex is common, the ability to openly discuss it is not
as common as people believe. For decades, men have listened to women demand
equality and sexual satisfaction.
Except, while they were making those demands, they never stopped to ask
men what they wanted. It is
assumed men should be happy to have any kind of sex. What’s worse is many women condemn men for having a large
sexual appetite. Even during
marriage, the wife may accuse the husband of marrying her only to have
sex. In addition to a large sex
drive, are there sexual proclivities men have that are being ignored by their
significant other?
On this show, we explored whether or not it is appropriate
for a man to have two intimate partners in his life. While there are many men who are completely fulfilled in and
out of the bedroom, there are others who have barely experienced
contentment. And many women do not
see that as a problem. Perhaps the
real problem exists in the lack of communication about what men really
need. Today we are going to open a
can of worms and address unspoken challenges in love and intimacy from a man’s
point of view.
To hear the recording of the show, click:
Join us live next Sunday, March 10. It will be from 7:00pm-8:30pm (est) as
Blair and I tackle some of the greatest concerns men, of all ages, have. If you want to join next weeks
discussion while it’s live, call (323)
642-1387. Or you can
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Straight Talk with
Ted Santos and Blair Nash is the show made for men by men. And if you’re a woman, you won’t want
to miss it. It is the place where
you can speak openly about the things everyone avoids. Join us!
What do you
think? I would love to hear your feedback. And I’m open to ideas. Or if you
want to write me about a specific topic, connect through my blog www.turnaroundip.blogspot.com.
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